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July 21 Travel light片段这几天总是浮现旅行的某些瞬间,眼前闪回。不停的催促我上路。昨晚和ALLA 讨论线路问题。我们都一致同意很想再去印度。走了这么多地方,印度是NO.1 很想再去一次的国家。脑海里又想起自己的承诺,一定要回泰国一次,去泰北看远在天堂的朋友。 脑海里有很多回忆,时不时冒出来,在时空中错乱。有危险,有欢笑,有眼泪,有心动,有感激,有遗憾,有感触,有成长。 和MAKIKO越南一起经历的沙暴雨;印度杰斯梅尔沙漠里几乎冻僵,一夜无眠;巴基斯坦白沙瓦生病几乎不能走路。都笑着过来了。 不知道为什么,突然间想起从CHIANG RAI 到 CHINAG MAI 回程路上的巴士上,后面坐满了去服兵役的泰国GG。我知道他们在议论我。我问身边会讲英文的尼姑,他们再说什么。 她反问我:" do you have boyfriend?" ( 在其他国家就换成了“ are you get married?") 这个问题几乎每到一个地方总会有人问我,不厌其烦。总是一句NO..然后就会得到一脸疑惑,继续的问题就是WHY。。WHY? 我怎么知道。。” do you want a boyfriend from thai?" 然后我就明白为什么那些兵哥哥议论我了。。我笑着调侃,MAYBE..后来她中途下车,她说我是好孩子,送了我一句,佛祖会保佑我的。那时候我想起从曼谷到CHIANG MAI 的巴士上,发高烧,一个来自英国的金发厨师特别照顾,夜巴士上,我无法入睡,过去纠缠我。那时候又记起,出东德岛的时候,ASHTON 的妈妈给我算的塔罗说一个男人会走向我,牌面上是一个卷毛黑发帅哥,所以一路上特别注意黑色卷发的男生。所以再曼谷喝咖啡的时候对一个卷毛黑发帅哥好心动。还是我对塔罗牌的命运心动?说起塔罗牌,和ALLA 在印度的UDAIPUR 的RAINBOW RESTRUANT 被一个叫SHANU 的人看手相,说我会遇见一个我爱的又爱我的人。说远了!!原谅我的思绪的混乱。刚才讲过。时空错乱! 那个金发厨师,忘了名字了,总之,看的出来他对我很有兴趣的样子,到了CHIANG RAI 很努力的拿到我的EMAIL 地址,当然,自然奉上他的。和他说再见后。我没当回事情,写着他的EMAIL 地址也不知在哪里了。自然,他也没有EMAIL 给我。非常好。 至于在巴基斯坦,见了我两个小时就向我求婚的,我就不说了。除了惊吓就是觉的可笑。虽然现在偶尔还能接到他的电话.为什么想起这些,我想大概这几天受老爸老妈逼婚的念叨太多,所以回忆了旅行中的一部分。当然只是一部分,有些,回忆了,徒增伤感。 人生太多机遇,很庆幸我曾那么开心的路上走过。记得去年出发前。注满我脑海的是风四娘的一句“ 大腕的喝酒,大口的吃肉!爬最高的山,趟最急的河”。那么多个夜晚,遇见知己。三两杯的 。好不惬意。 越南NATRANG,和一个西班牙,一个以色列人一起泡酒吧,平生第一次知道MAJITO 这种酒。这个以色列小弟弟旅行的目的就是泡MM.很热情的叫来两个来自荷兰,俄罗斯工作的漂亮MM 玩一个桌上游戏,就是:拆台。看谁弄到积木先。只不过,我总是提前告辞。俺旅行不是来泡GG 的 。 越南和CASTEEN ,ANJA 一起深夜喝酒,讨论国际婚姻问题,总算也知道,外国人夫妻之间也不是很扣,也不是老是AA制的。然后就有个越南男生,给我来了一句,: 从我进入酒吧的那一刻,他的心脏就出问题了!迄今为止,是我听过最浪漫的表白。虽然很假。 越南西贡,和YOKO 聊到凌晨5点多,她的故事很电影。后来我也电影了一回。 老挝万荣,一起漂流的一组人晚上说好酒吧见一次面。仍然记得那晚STU 穿的很帅气,很潮啊,TSHIRT 加领带!还有装在水桶里的鸡尾酒!隔桌的一群人玩疯掉了,拿一个长管子,直接用水桶灌!那个人喝完之后就吐了.我很讶异居然能遇见再第一站轮播啦帮爬瀑布遇见的NICE 的爱尔兰人,过瀑布顶的时候,他很绅士的牵我的手帮我过急流。他推荐给我的印度的地方,LP 上我没找到。 老挝东德岛,4晚,每晚和ASHTON 和他妈妈约会,看见过非常漂亮但是吓人的变色龙。教育ASHTON 怎么做一个好男朋友,就是,过泥地的时候得拉我的手。这个说要做我男朋友FOREVER的,可爱的调皮的小男孩,不知道他还记不记得我。我到是对他妈妈背上的巨型纹身印象深刻。一棵大树!生命之树。 柬埔寨金边,万古湖边,清凉的穿堂风,和李兰彻夜长谈,谈老挝朋友发生的事情,以及对感情的看法。她对感情的看法和豁达,让我不可思议。后来我也渐渐明白。 泰国曼谷,重遇 JACO 和STU,靠山路上席地而坐,看着过往人群,喝着自制的鸡尾酒,感谢这对夫妇,随身携带调酒用具。以及,和他们朋友那晚酒吧里的谈论,对西藏的看法,他们对中国的疑问。还有那个有名的黄色潜水艇酒吧里,他们施展魅力泡到一个泰国GG 拿到免费的鸡尾酒。以及那个晚上下着大雨,三个人雨中漫步,对着过往路人叫晚安。 泰国CHINAG RAI,朋友们那么热情的邀请,3个晚上的免费大餐。AOM 的热情。始终是温暖我对泰国的记忆。 印度的接斯梅尔,宿沙漠那晚,燃起的篝火,三个德国人,一个印度认,加唯一的一个女孩子,来自中国,讨论一些不着边际的话。那个说为我特地赶来沙漠的旅行社经理,努力的说服我让他做我只是再印度的男朋友。后来我猜就是他恶毒的想报复我的拒绝,才给了我那么小的被子,让我差点再沙漠里冻僵。见了很美的星空月夜,和日出。还有,再沙漠无人处,N 次小解。自然天然的厕所,FOR FREE! 印度GOA,我,ALLA,还有一个我又忘了名字的波兰GG,一起海岸边用餐,见过,最美的日落。暗夜的海有它的魅力。虽然蚊子很咬人。 印度德里,和一志喝告别酒,摆乌龙,深夜12点CHECK OUT,又回来却又睡不着,每次和人说起这件事情,就自觉得好笑。 巴基斯坦LAHORE 的新年之夜,在那里工作的同胞,为了安慰没抽到奖的我,把奖品送了我。 伊朗YAZD,遇见三位记者,我很多话。难得又碰见中国人。在伊朗也有过几次夜活动的,但是不知道为什么,压抑的伊朗,我总不能玩的开心,不知道是不是丢了我的戒指。连接我灵魂的戒指。 坐过很多次夜巴士,每次,都会把发生的事情想啊想的 。 我总以为当我找到我自己的时候,我把我自己给丢了,所以一直寻找着。 我也问了自己很多次,你到底找寻的是什么,也无法给自己答案。 回家这么久,困惑却越来越多。走的地方越多,却越相信命运。对宗教也有了认识。 佛教,基督教,印度教,锡克教,伊斯兰教,宗教的存在的意义是什么?突然间我觉的,信一个宗教,就好像我对生活的解读一样,想去相信,却发现自己已失去相信的勇气,从小被教育无宗教论。却无法停止宗教对心灵的吸引。我想相信。却站再任何一个宗教面前都无法替自己100%投入。相信不是很简单的吗,只不过,不想不虔诚。也许我还是缺乏历练。 佛家的苦,基督教的罪,印度教的冥想,锡克教的大同,伊斯兰教的戒。我总想找一条路可以通往心灵彼岸的路。 突然间我发现,态度真的很重要。 我以很认真的态度思考人生的问题。 感谢旅行。 感谢旅行中遇见的人。 感谢所有,美好以及不美好的瞬间。 感谢未来,我还能为了你,勇敢的走下去。 July 02 2th July 2008June 29 In end of this month of the year 2008I am kinda of person always try to find something from the books..the strories.the truth.the theme .the path to go .the answer of the life.and more ....and more...
(1) THE KITE RUNNER Khaled hosseini
i cried again and again for this book.after this book,i understand the culture of musilim.there was a kind of love that i respect much! "For you,a thousand times over".......
(2) LIKE THE FLOWING RIVER Paulo coelho
You can discover your soul more.from his words, i think more,not only future,but about God.religion and what that refleted to us. The art of the sword keeping calm: anyone who understands the meaning of life knows that things have neither a beginning nor an end,and that there is ,there fore,no point in worrying,Fight for that you believe in whithout trying to prove anything to anyone;maintian the same silent calm of someone who has had thecourage to choose his own destiny.
this applies to both love and war. allowing your heart to be present: anyone who trusts in his owers of seduction ,in his ability to say the right thing at the right time,in the correct use of the body ,becomes deaf to the "voice of the heart",this can only be heard when we are in complete harmoney with the world around us,and never when we judge ourselves to be he centre of the universe this applies to both love and war. finding the right master:our path will always cross tat of other people who,out of love or pride,want to teach us something,how can we distinguish the friend from the manipulator?the answer is simple:the true teacher is not the one who teaches us the ideal path,but the one who shows us the many ways of reaching the road we need to travel if we are to find our destiny.Once we have found that road,the teacher can not help us naymore,because its challenges are unique. this applies to neither love nor war.but unlesss we understand that,we will never get anywhere. escaping from threats:we often think that the ideal attitude is that of giving up one's life for a dream.nothing could be further from the truth,in order to achieve a dream.we need t preserve our life,and we must,there fore,know how to avoid those things that threaten us.the more we plan our steps,the more chance there is that we will go wrong,because we are failing to take into consideration four things:other people ,life 's teachings,passion and calm.the more we feel we are in control of things,the farther off we are from controolling anything.A threat does not issure any warning,and a swift reacion cannot be planned like a sunday afternoon walk. therefore,if you want to be in harmony with our love or with your fight,learn to react rapidly,through educated observation,do not allow your supposed experience of life to transform you into a machine.use that experience to listen always to "the voice of the heart" even if you donto agree with that voice is saying,respect it and follow its advice: it knows when to act and when to avoid action. this applies to both love and war. (3) BRIDA Paulo coelho
This a story about a irish girl to become a witch and how to find her soulmate and know the meaning of the life.it says.you can have not only one soulmate. what i like the most.that the magus told brida finally when they said goodbye: "then you came,and i understood all of this,you came to free me from the slavery i myself had created,to tell me that i was free to return to the world and to the things of the world.i understood everything i needed to know ,and i love you more than all the women i have ever known,more than i loved the woman who,quite unwittingly,exiled me to the forest.i will always rememer now that love is liberty,that was the lesson it took me so many years to learn,that is the lesson that sent me into exile and now sets me free again"
(4) FURTHER ALONG THE ROAD LESS TRAVELLED M.Scott peck
his another famouse book << the road less travelled>>.these two books show me the path ,the way to deal with everything.to understand the world around me.and the people. The truth is that i want it
and the price i must pay is to ask the question again and again and again.
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